Anonymous asked:
Hi, I've been with a new partner who is much bigger than what I am used to and sex with him has been..less than pleasurable. It usually hurts and I end up having tears around the entrance to my vagina. At first I was worried these tears were herpes but it only happens after sex and then starts to get better within a day or two. We have tried lube and I went to the doctor and she said everything looked normal, but didn't test for hsv. Do you have suggestions? Its starting to get frustrating forus
I’m happy to hear you went to the doctor when you thought you had an STD! That is a good habit to have. Regarding size, lubrication is very important but it is equally, if not more, important to make sure YOU are fully aroused. When we become aroused, everything expands and our own lubrication system kicks in. Make sure you are receiving all that you need prior to penetration to ensure you are turned on and ready to go. Once you’re at that point, its important your partner takes their time, slowly allowing penetration to happen. This will definitely help. Followers who have experience with large penis’/dildos/vibrators - any additional advice?
