Do you have any advice for my first time trying anal? I'm just really scared, but it's something I really want to try. I'm a cisman. I don't know if that's relevant or not for any advice you might give.
Are you want to give, receive or both? I am going to talk about it as though you are receiving, although the advice would be the same if you were giving. Does that make sense?
First and foremost use protection - protection with anal play is extremely important to avoid STD/STI’s. Lubrication is also a necessity. Making sure your partners penis/vibrator/dildo is lubricated will make the experience easier and more pleasurable for you. It is also important to relax, so taking your time is also important. When we aren’t relaxed, our anal muscles will contract, making penetration difficult. Take your time! Similarly to fisting, ask your partner to start very slowly and as you become more relaxed, more aroused and the penis/dildo/vibrator is well lubricated, have your partner slowly add more pressure. Make sure you have plenty of time and are in a place you feel comfortable so you don’t feel rushed or unsafe.
Remember, you might not be able to have full anal sex your first time. That is completely ok - just take your time, enjoy yourself and this new experience. This is also a great anal-sex-how-to! Hope this helps and good luck!
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raging-liberal-hard-on said:
Can this be made rebloggable? This is really helpful.
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